Engage her into your conversation.

Some pick up lines are just terrible.


For example how often have you heard bad pick up lines such as:

"Did it hurt? When you fell from heaven, did it hurt?"

"Do I know you from somewhere?"

"Did you wash your pants with windex? Because I can see myself in them."


Let's face it - if you use lines like these on a girl, she's not going to give you the time of day.


But because the bad pick up lines get so much attention, people think ALL pick up lines are like this.


However, this is not correct.


A good pick up line will ACTUALLY help you pick up a woman.


The true point in using pick up lines is to begin a conversation.

That is all.


You can work your magic to do what you need to get a date with her, a phone number and an emotional connection, once she begins talking to you.


If you cannot begin a conversation, you can do little else.


Because you shouldn't just be talking to a girl. You should be ENGAGING the girl. Pulling her into a conversation with you is the only sure-fire way to further your agenda.


And guess what? A good pick up line will do that!

Do you know that when most men meet women they are at a loss for words to begin talking to a woman? They try to think of something off the top of their head, while often missing the opportunity of meeting a nice woman, before they can think of something to say.


It is essential to have at least a couple of good working pick up lines, especially for those times when you are nervous and cannot think of anything original that helps you take action.


Keep in mind that women are wise; never use these types of pick up lines, since they get you nowhere at all.


"Don't I know you from somewhere?"


This is lame pick up line and women know it, this is not a clever pick up line and makes you look bad.


Other unimpressive pick up lines include complimenting a woman on her clothing, asking for directions and telling her she looks like a movie star.


Why is this?

Because these things do not ENGAGE the girl. Once she responds, there is nothing to keep her in the conversation.


Avoid pick up lines that have yes and no answers. Good pick up lines get a woman to think about her reply, while inducing an emotional reaction, which encourages her to continue talking with you.


How can you engage a woman in conversation with you?

Easy, ask her opinion about some issue, since each woman has her own opinion, she likes to share with other, especially when it concerns relationships.


So to give you an example, you could say something like: "Hey, can I get your opinion on something real quick? Do you think it's wierd for a woman to try and get pregnant because she wants her baby to be born under a certain astrological sign? I really want to hear a woman's perspective on this."


Then follow up with a short story of how a woman may want her and her children's zodiac sign to be compatible, so they interact well together throughout their lives.


These various types of subjects for conversation can be about:

1. Relationships 2. Astrology 3. Marriage 4. Pregnancy 5. Children


The number of ways you can go with this are endless. Some of my favorite follow ups are:

"Do you believe in astrology?" (this can lead into discussions of fate and destiny)

"What is your zodiac sign?" (This can lead to talking about your sign compatibility - as a general rule, no matter what your sign is - you are compatible!)

"Do you like kids? You seem like the nurturing type."

I could go on and on, but you get the idea.


The design of a good pick up line engages a woman into deep and interesting conversations that provide you with an opportunity to get to know one another as you become familiar with each other.

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How to strike the First Conversation

Everyone, male or female, feels an important need to be consistent in the things they say, do and feel. If we're flaky and liable to change at the drop of a hat what we believe or have promised, we know that people are likely to judge and mistrust us. This commonly felt sense of importance regarding the need to be consistent within ourselves can be exploited when attempting to seduce a woman. One seduction technique that makes use of this concept is called 'The Power of Yes'.

Here's a common scenario most men have experienced at some point or another in their lives. You find yourself talking to a girl, maybe you approached her and consciously started a conversion, or perhaps the chat began unplanned, naturally. Either way, you're enjoying each other's company. After a while, it dawns on you that you and the girl you're talking to are going to have to go your separate ways pretty soon, which poses a slight dilemma: how can you make it so this isn't the first and last time you two are together and instead arrange for it to progress into something further? The obvious route to take is to perform a 'closer'.

A closer is when you make a conscious effort to get a girl's number, swap both your numbers, arrange to meet up again soon, or otherwise cross that social "getting to know you" line. Thing is, you don't want your closer to crash and burn, you want the girl to happily agree to whatever it is you suggest. So how can help ensure that happens? You use psychology, specifically, 'The Power of Yes' technique. The technique involves getting the girl you're interacting with to give several positive 'yes' responses to your questions in quick succession. Doing so helps develop an internal sense of positivity in the female that carries over in her mind to when you perform the actual closer and tips the balance in the direction of agreement to your request or suggestion.

You can do this by using subtle and casual responses after she says things, like: "Really?" and "Do you?" Match your response to what she's just said and ensure it takes the form of a question that you're sure will prompt a 'yes' response from her. Getting between 3 and 6 of these positive responses is usually enough to allow the principle to work.

At the same time, avoid asking questions or saying things near the end of your conversation, just before you're about to close, that could possibly evoke negative reactions or "no" responses from the female.

The reason this technique works so well is because of the natural human phenomenon mentioned at the start of this article - that people feel it's important to be consistent and congruent in the things they say and the situation they're in. After responding to you positively half a dozen times, a natural inclination is created in the female's mind for saying 'yes' - she's gotten used to it. When you finally suggest going for a bite to eat tomorrow or visiting that museum together you told her about, the most natural and consistent response in her mind is a responding "Yes!"…it just feels right.

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